Comments on: Buffalo Matchmaker Patti Novak – Episode 11 Dating Tips http://www.onlinedatingnewsblog.com/datingtips/pattinovak-30.html Online Dating Blog - Advice and Tips for Dating & Relationships Thu, 25 Feb 2010 00:24:44 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: kim http://www.onlinedatingnewsblog.com/datingtips/pattinovak-30.html/comment-page-1#comment-3756 kim Wed, 18 Feb 2009 06:04:42 +0000 http://www.onlinedatingnewsblog.com/datingtips/pattinovak-30.html#comment-3756 I would have to agree with not putting yourself down. I once dated a man that did nothing but talk down about himself, it was a very unattractive quality. Plus, I constantly felt like it was my job to argue with him about it, it was very draining. I would have to agree with not putting yourself down. I once dated a man that did nothing but talk down about himself, it was a very unattractive quality. Plus, I constantly felt like it was my job to argue with him about it, it was very draining.

]]> By: SirCommy http://www.onlinedatingnewsblog.com/datingtips/pattinovak-30.html/comment-page-1#comment-721 SirCommy Fri, 23 Nov 2007 09:21:17 +0000 http://www.onlinedatingnewsblog.com/datingtips/pattinovak-30.html#comment-721 I had my full experience in blind dating and honestly, it can work simlpy fantastic at times. And as Joe Tracey wisely mentioned, it takes time and you better take it seriously, rather than do what others do. give some info and then "ok, let's meet". It just isn't like that, try to take it more like in r/l, you'll see a good similarity. I had my full experience in blind dating and honestly, it can work simlpy fantastic at times. And as Joe Tracey wisely mentioned, it takes time and you better take it seriously, rather than do what others do. give some info and then “ok, let’s meet”. It just isn’t like that, try to take it more like in r/l, you’ll see a good similarity.

]]> By: Arkady http://www.onlinedatingnewsblog.com/datingtips/pattinovak-30.html/comment-page-1#comment-110 Arkady Fri, 21 Sep 2007 09:22:07 +0000 http://www.onlinedatingnewsblog.com/datingtips/pattinovak-30.html#comment-110 I must mention two caveats to the rules that Patti mentioned: 1. "Don't be sarcastic" - sarcasm, if done properly, tastefully and without excessive negativity is one of the most POWERFUL ways to attract the other person. Sarcasm is one of the highest levels of humor and both men and women very much appreciate sense of humor and sharp wit in the counter part. 2. "Don't put yourself down" - self deprecating, if done in joking manner, can be very attractive. Laughing at oneself in an endeering manner is a great sign of confidence. After all, who can openly make fun of his own traits / qualities unless he / she is completely secure in having them. I must mention two caveats to the rules that Patti mentioned:

1. “Don’t be sarcastic” – sarcasm, if done properly, tastefully and without excessive negativity is one of the most POWERFUL ways to attract the other person. Sarcasm is one of the highest levels of humor and both men and women very much appreciate sense of humor and sharp wit in the counter part.

2. “Don’t put yourself down” – self deprecating, if done in joking manner, can be very attractive. Laughing at oneself in an endeering manner is a great sign of confidence. After all, who can openly make fun of his own traits / qualities unless he / she is completely secure in having them.

]]> By: Kris Duttlinger http://www.onlinedatingnewsblog.com/datingtips/pattinovak-30.html/comment-page-1#comment-105 Kris Duttlinger Tue, 18 Sep 2007 17:09:36 +0000 http://www.onlinedatingnewsblog.com/datingtips/pattinovak-30.html#comment-105 Love This Show!! and only wish I were closer to Buffalo as one who could definitely use Patti's help. She is the epitome of awesomeness :) Love This Show!! and only wish I were closer to Buffalo as one who could definitely use Patti’s help. She is the epitome of awesomeness :)

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